totally random..

just some thoughts and a survey..

*I love to cook..but hate taking the time to do it lately..and I've run out of ideas, and we're bored with all the old fall backs!
*I love to bake, but have no time :( plus I dont need to eat all the baked goods!!
*I became the secretary at church, but now dont want to be a member there most of the time because of stupid petty drama!!!
*I love my kids, but would kill for a full nights sleep...in my bed, cuddling only my blankets and stuffed bear.
*Yes, I sleep with a stuffed bear.
*Clay hasnt slept more than an hour at a time at night in days....my mother needs to come keep him awake for me again.
*I am resentful of things I have no control over.
*I am a jealous person, and I hate it!!
*I am sad about things I have no control over and need to just accept.



Relationship Preferences

1- Would you rather have a fun fling or a lasting relationship?
Lasting.. always.

2- What was your longest relationship?
This one, going on 7 years in March. Married 3 years this month :)

3-What is your favorite personality trait?
A great sense of humor, and confidence is a must too..dont be whiny like me! :P

4- What is the most romantic thing a significant other could do?
Right now? watch the kids so I could sleep....... lol ;) Normally? Suprise me with dinner and a movie :D (whether at home or out..or home with takeout!)

5- When you are dating someone, what is the most important thing to you?
Trust... and really being best friends with that person.

6- Do you like pet names (ex: baby, sweetheart...)?
LOL yes, babe/baby is most common in our house..

7- What is your ideal night out with a significant other?
Dinner, movie, then home to bed ;)

8- What is your ideal night in with a significant other?
Dinner that I dont have to cook, with a good movie, then puzzles in bed and lovins ;)

9- Would you be able to tell someone you love them, even if you didn't feel it?
Nope.. I dont use the L word unless I truly mean it.

10- Do you like relationships that involve serious commitments?
Uhm, obviously...since I'm married lol

11- If you ever got engaged, how would you want it to happen?
LOL Well since it DID happen..kinda.....it happened during a friends wedding..he mentioned "when we get married..." and from then on we started making plans

12-Do you know what you would want your engagement ring to look like? Do you want to help pick it out?
Yes, I wanted a 3 stone ring, or just a princess cut solitaire. (sapphires are completely welcome!! lol)

13- If you were engaged, would you want a wedding as soon as possible?
Nah, I wanted plenty of time to plan it :)

13- Do you like to talk about the future when in a serious relationship?
Yuppers

14- Do you prefer a sensitive open relationship or a strong silent type?
We have a very open relationship, but he is the strong silent type..so you gotta pry stuff outta him sometimes ;) lol

15- When in a relationship do you have to have contact with your partner on a daily basis?
Well kinda, since we live together with kids lol

16- Do you like public displays of affection?
Yes

17- Is there anything you won't tolerate while in a relationship?
Cheating, or betrayal of trust.

18- What is one thing that you value most in a relationship?
I value lots of things... Trust, honesty, loyaly, friendship... and many more. Everything is very important in some aspect..

19- Would you ever be able to handle a long-distance situation?
Depends on how much money he's making rofl ;)

20- Do you believe in moving in together before engagement or marriage?
Yup :)